ගිය හකුරට නාඩන්නේ, තියෙන හකුර රැකගන්නේ

Certain things in our lives may not be a reality for some REASON. So is it worthwhile to believe or trust or worrory or predict or interpret about what is not a Reaility?….

‘PAST’ is something which is like this. It’s not the reality, since it is passed. We are living in the present and gather more knowledge or hope for the future.

‘PAST’ we can’t change.
‘PAST’ we can’t gurantee.
‘PAST’ we can forgive but not forget.
‘PAST’ which is definitely a full-stop or mile post in our lives.
So is it worthwhile to value it accoring to our present measures?

It’s true that ‘PRESENT’ will definitely become ‘PAST’ in few moments. We all try to do our best to allow present, to be a “pleasant PAST”.

But sometimes we fail.
Not to worry, If you get the satisfaction with what you did.
NOt to feel guilty, If you know you didn’t do anything bad.
Not to suffer, If you do so you will ruin your present and future life, without even experiencing.

Past is PASSED. Let it be as it is.
But PRESENT is in our hands. Right on our palms.
So..Let’s be fair in the best way to allow future to reach our lives as it is…

Expectations

In our lives we don’t get what we always expect for. Because I believe that every human being is controlled by some internal power which was explained in my 1^st post, and that invisible power or strength is the master in ones own self. It decides what we should gain in our lives and what not. At the same time leads our unconscious mind to dream about what we still want to have.

Some may call it destiny. But rather than just letting destiny to lead themselves, some may try to pull every incident or circumstance into the “circle of influence”. The frame in which one make decisions, control, plan what rest he or she can do when problems arise, rather than blaming influences which are made by ones environments such as social, political, economical and technological. What do you think is right??? its up to you, to decide.

Going back to our expectations, from our childhood days we are having or had wants (most suitable word) or goals or dreams which we still want to accomplish or live with. But if you think for a moment about all what we like to have in our lives; is it something what we really need?, can’t we live without it? Supposing if we won’t be able to achieve or accomplish something we wanted, and the question follows it; are we ready to be satisfied with what we have, say hello to a new chapter comes with the unexpected? Hm…………yep the answer depends. It will vary with the SKILLS, KNOWLEDGE AND ATTITUDES we have within us. And especially self discipline and values within us.

WHO AM ‘I’? WHO ARE YOU?

 

I am a smart, intelligent, well behaved, pretty/handsome, courageous, simple etc…person. Some of us might say I am a useless, ungrateful, foolish, miserable, unhappy, restless fellow.

Do these answers depend on the person who is giving these definitions?

The answer is YES.

What I strongly believe is, that a HUMAN BEING is a unit of this world, with his own inner strength which is a heritage of the Universal strength. No matter what you are and not, everyone who is alive in this world even the animals, plants, flowers….etc has this miracle in their body and every breath they take into.

Recognizing such power you have is not that simple because the PERSON you are now, is in the development stage of that human being. In my point of view “A human being who has been brought up, in their own background i.e. family, educational, cultural; along with the talents and with the experiences and attitudes he has got, is a PERSON”. It clearly proves that, the way a human being think, act, talk and every possible ways of how we live, has the influence of above background.

Then to realize what inner power we have as a human being, we should forget all such influences which made the person who we are today. It will be difficult at the beginning. But try it and see and it will be your 1^st step in FINDING YOU…….

“When I forget my background, all the talents, experiences, attitudes I have got; I feel that I am a human being who is so independent and like to think freely.”……( Rukshi )